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"I am an ethereal being who is ready to put sunshine on your face and love in your heart". People just
exist, that is a fact. In general society sets happiness as the purpose of life and it depends on each
person to be happy.
Happiness is an abstract concept which varies in each person. Some people never
stop to think about a particular purpose. They fight to survive or live without any motivation. Other
peopleç?÷?ç?×??÷ƒç?×??÷?s main purpose is to make money or look for money, others make love or look
for love, and others focus on the welfare of their children and their family.
Some people want power,
fame, degrees and personal growth. In other words, the purpose of life is to look for something that
is missing or something that people believe makes them feel good, very good, and very happy.
In my
opinion the human being is extremely gifted at being happy but most people ignore that.Women usually
are looking for friendship first, then love and finally sex.
Men want sex first, then friendship and
lastly love. Regarding love, I think it can sprout, grow and die. It all depend if there is a good
environment for it.
Love is a special feeling which appears when some conditions are favorable and
only can survive if those conditions remain. The ideal situation is when that feeling is mutual but
unfortunaly that does not happen frequently.
Sometimes it happens at the beginning. Love is composite
of several parts but mainly it is supported by affection and sex. Everybody expects to find love with
quality and balance of both components.
Most of the couples have a dysfunction because love is not
mutual and either affection or sex or both are missing. In any of those cases of dysfunction, people
take different alternatives: Divorce or keep the relationship.
If the person decides to keep the relationship
they have two options either being faithful or unfaithful. People who choose to be faithful conform
to the deficiency in the relationship and hope one day it will be fixed.
These people run the risk
of becoming frustrated. On the other hand, people who decide to be unfaithful seek that part which
is missing in their relationship.
They have to be very careful and astute as to not ruin their lives
and the lives of others. To me, being faithful or not is just matter of making the decision and itç?÷?ç?×??÷ƒç?×??÷?s
a respectful decision because everybody has the right to pursue happiness.
However to minimize the
effect of hurting people by being unfaithful I think it is extremely necessary to choose the right
person.
That person should be honest, discrete and also a good lover.. . If do I am the right person?
discover it by yourself, Contact me!
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